So my Dad lives in Oregon and he made arrangements to come this monday for my wedding with his girlfriend (okay great, sounds good). So a few days ago I get a FB message from the girlfriend that she's sorry and can't make it to the wedding, no reason why. Don't hear anything from my father and tonight when I talk to him, he keeps saying WE can't wait to come out there, I had to stop him and ask if she is or isn't coming. He say's I hope so, she's thinking about it. Hello, it's freaking killing me, they have no concept of time, or the fact that I have to give a head count and table seating and info to the dj and everyone else, grrr, they are killing me. Not what I need right now.