I am not changing my name. I have tried to come up with some way of answering the question of "why not". I don't want to doesn’t seem good enough for people. Also, some people seem to be very offended. I have no problem with other people changing their name, I just am not changing mine. Anyone have a good, inoffensive even bland answer for this. I also get a lot of "what name will your kids take"? I don't even know what the first and middle name will be so I guess not knowing the last will is fine right now. I really have no problem if people call me by the wrong last name, I am not going to go around correcting the grocery guy b/c my husband and I share a discount card. I just need a good bland reason to give people when they ask? Anyone? Help.