Hi all! We are planning to renew our vows possibly May of 2011 (maybe 2012) in a big ceremony of our dreams. We originally half-a**ed our wedding because we didn't have a lot of money, I got pregnant after we set the date (kept the same date) and it pissed his parents off (not good reasons, we see that now). This time we are doing things right and planning all the things we would have originally. I am buying the dress of my dreams, we're having the ceremony either on the beach, in a garden setting or at a lighthouse (haven't totally decided which one yet, still doing research) and the reception will be a sit down formal thing (maybe at one of the Inn's on Cape Cod). Right now I'm looking at dresses for my daughters (#1 will be about 10, #2 will be about 5-6, and the baby (due December!) will be about 2). I can't decide if they should each have their own dress, or if they should be matching. The oldest will be a Junior Bridesmaid and the younger two will be flower girls. I've been trying to figure out how to match up attendants, since we're including our girls. Can an adult Usher look okay with a 10yr old bridesmaid? Are there any real rules to renewing vows? I know that you don't have a shower or registery, but is there anything else that is considered a "no-no" for a renewal? I have read that white is sometimes a no-no, but I want a white gown to pass to my girls, so I'm going with white. Thanks ladies, and sorry this is so long!