This might be a little cheesy but I know that we can all get wrapped up in the small things and wanted to share...I was recently in a wedding and was talking with my other friend who attended as well. Her wedding is coming up in March. We were talking about how nice the wedding was and how we are so happy for them. All of the sudden my friend got really quiet and put her head down. I asked her what was wrong and if she was ok? She started to tell me how she thought her wedding wasn't even going to come close to our friend that just had hers. I felt really bad for her and could tell she wanted to have a fantastic wedding. Then I thought what is a fantastic wedding? I tried to explain to her that her wedding is not going to be like our other friend because it’s her and her FI's day. They are 2 different people with different tastes. This is a day to celebrate them starting their lives together not the center pieces, extra lighting, or chair covers. I think with all of the reality shows out there that some of us feel the need to out do each other and lose site of the true meaning. Don't get me wrong we all have certain details and ideas of how we want our weddings to be but at the end of the day don't drive yourself crazy over the small details and try not to compare your day to anyone else’s or what you see on tv.