Hey there everyone! I am recently engaged (just two weeks! woohoo!!) and there is something that I feel I need to take care of soon before it gets out of control. My future mother in law is nice and really wants to plan the rehersal dinner. Only problem, is that my family always has a big Shabbat dinner every week, and for weekend family events, it is always a very special thing to spend it with my whole family (the extended and out of town). My mother just got married two years ago and I loved how the night before her wedding, everyone came together for a beautiful Shabbat dinner that tons of people in the family helped plan and cook for and set up. I have always wanted this the night before my wedding- a chance to see everyone from out of town and welcome Shabbat surrounded by family.
So? Well, I am worried that my MIL won't understand this. She isn't Jewish (but my fiance comes to Shabbat dinner at my parents' house every week with me) and said "It's just one night, you can not do it this one time." My parents suggested that we offer them a rehersal lunch or brunch, since the rehersal would be earlier in the day rather than the evening anyway. What do you all think? Does it sound like an OK idea? I need some reassurance before talking to them. Thanks everyone!
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