Originally we were thinking of going to Chicago for a weekend as one of my BM's mom's has a place there we could stay, but I think the flights are going to be just too expensive. So was thinking of finding some place nice within 4 hour drive to go for 3 or so days. We do want to go out at night. We definitely want to do a spa day but we can do that anywhere... sigh. At a total loss. Any suggestions?