we're wondering if we should do 3 or 4 courses. i don't want people to leave hungry but at the same we're wondering if the 4th course is necessary.
we're doing some finger foods for cocktail hour. then for first course we're going to do salad, second course we were thinking a hot appetizer small pasta or phyllo bake, then mains which will be steak and another meat, and cake for dessert.