When I was younger, I always swore I wouldn't live with a BF before marriage... not because I was against that thing, but because I wanted a really clear distinction between the boundaries of dating someone and marrying them.
But, when Phil and I left Japan, we had to live together in order to get him a visa and then permanent residency, yadda, yadda. So we did, and that was that. I was worried that the transition into married life would be no different than before. I posed this question (back in the day) over on the Etiquette board, and most of the girls there were happily in the exact same place mentally and emotionally before and after marriage. That made me even more worried!
How many of you live with your fiancé? Will you be making the switch after? How do you think your married life will differ from your unmarried life?