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CandiStarr
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Help Me! Is this normal

Hello All:

I recently had a baby girl, who is so wonderful and full joy.  She is soon going to be 8 months.

But, as of lately I find myself wanting to get pregnant again.  My pregnancy was great with one exception.  DD's father was on house arrest and I don't feel that I really enjoyed my first pregnancy as much as I could.  He was able to go to all the appointments, and saw DD birth.

But, I find myself thinking that I was still cheated out of the full experience of him doing the midnight runs for cravings, shopping together, etc.

He has two children from a previous relationship, and really doesn't want anymore children.  But, I do!  I know if I were to get pregnant again, he would just be on board.  However, I feel guilty because I want to have another so soon.

What should I do, is there a support group for women that miss being pregnant.  Worst of all what if the feeling doesn't go away after possibly having another child.

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My significant other was on house arrest for a DUI.  He was pulled over, and the police found a bottle in the car from a night out at a BYOB resturaunt.

I want more children, and my daughter was not planned.  However, she is the best unplanned surprise of my life. I really don't want to leave him because I want more kids, and he doesn't.

Which is why I said:  That he would be on board should it ever happen again.  Neither one of us believe in terminating pregnancy.

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Re: ::snort::

  • edited December 2011
    Women of the world are sooooooo confused.
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  • DG1DG1 member
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    edited December 2011

    So was he actually drinking and driving? Or was there just an open container in the car?  (I mean, based on the rest of the post, I am guessing actual DUI, but it's just unclear.)

    And yes, this chick has issues.  I miss pregnancy, too, but it's not because DH would make midnight ice cream runs for me.

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  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    edited December 2011
    I just read the first part of this, and then my jaw hit the desk and I couldn't continue.
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    Good grief.  Can we start stealing babies from idiots and redistributing to those better equipped to raise them?
  • notamrsnotamrs member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_snort-20?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:e716dcfd-45cb-4154-8bd8-e944974d16b9Post:b9b69bc1-b0ed-4232-8ffc-6af945ec072a">Re: ::snort::</a>:
    [QUOTE]Good grief.  Can we start stealing babies from idiots and redistributing to those better equipped to raise them?
    Posted by 6fsn[/QUOTE]

    co-signed.
  • HeffalumpHeffalump member
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    edited December 2011
    So.many.questions.

    Why would you marry someone who doesn't want any more kids if you do?

    I think it's HIGHlarious that she basically wants another kid so he'll go baby shopping with her and run to the store for her.  I mean, can't they just shop for the 8 mo old and send him out for Chunky Monkey without knocking her up?

    This is what I meant in that post below, it's never "it would be great for Baby to have a sibling close in age" or "another baby would add immeasurably to the joy in our family," it's all "I want, I want" me-me-me. 
  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    No sht, 6. House arrest. I lost my eyebrows. 
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Head + desk...repeat over and over.

    I'm with you 6.  Jeebus, Mary, and Joseph.


  • Butter CookieButter Cookie member
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    edited December 2011
    I know, Heffa. Hell, I'm pretty sure my uterus has no contents (maybe some cobwebs) and I can get H to go shopping with me AND go pick stuff up if I'm craving/just need something.

    Also: I will admit this post made me think they aren't married. I feel like an ass, but I just assumed she's 19 and he's more like 30.
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  • HeffalumpHeffalump member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_snort-20?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:e716dcfd-45cb-4154-8bd8-e944974d16b9Post:6934af57-bb02-4c9a-b526-59add97c09fa">Re: ::snort::</a>:
    [QUOTE]I know, Heffa. Hell, I'm pretty sure my uterus has no contents (maybe some cobwebs) and I can get H to go shopping with me AND go pick stuff up if I'm craving/just need something. Also: I will admit this post made me think they aren't married. I feel like an ass, but I just assumed she's 19 and he's more like 30.
    Posted by Butter Cookie[/QUOTE]
    CandiStarr is surely her stripper name.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_snort-20?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:e716dcfd-45cb-4154-8bd8-e944974d16b9Post:b452bb4f-9b9b-4b18-bd61-9fa1147f7d2c">Re: ::snort::</a>:
    [QUOTE]I just read the first part of this, and then my jaw hit the desk and I couldn't continue.
    Posted by loveshine1[/QUOTE]

    I'm on board with this.
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  • 6fsn6fsn member
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    edited December 2011
    BC- I assumed they were unwed too.  Nothing assy about that.
  • HeffalumpHeffalump member
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    edited December 2011
    Y'all are right, reading comprehension FAIL on my part.  She refers to him as her SO, not her H.
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