I am still strugling on deciding on a wedding date for my wedding in 2014. I like the following dates 5-16-14, 5-17-14, 9-19-14 & 10-10-14. What are peoples thoughts on the best date? I am getting married in Milwuakee, WI and i want to get married outside and need a month that is not to hot or cold and doesn't rain too much. I like september 19th but still debating because i have 4 family members that have birthdays that month, but chose the 19th which no one has. Anyone's thoughts on that? Is it bad?