Hello. I am getting married in 39 days and I am in a very awkward situation. My parents divorced when I was 11. They never really got along or tolerated each other untl about 6 years ago. I am very close to both parents, and I have always envisioned walking down the aisle with the both of them. A month or so ago, I asked my Mom if she would like to walk me down the aisle with my Dad. She was very happy I asked and said she would be honored. This is where it gets tough...I never even thought of mentioning this to my Dad, as I didn't see any issue with it. A few days ago he and I were talking on the phone and he asked about the seating at the ceremony. I should add that he is now remarried and my Mom doesn't care for his wife. I told him that I wanted both him and my Mom to walk me down the aisle. He freaked out. He said that that's the one thing he's able to do with me on my wedding day, and he's been looking forward to this and he feels like someone is always trying to put him on the back burner, etc. I was in complete shock that he was reacting that way. I had no idea what to even say. My parents divorce was very bitter and he has always said that he's felt he got the short end of the stick. I told him that I never intended to make him feel this way, by my decision to have both of them walk me down the aisle, but it was because I love the both of them and they are both very important to me. He then said he had never heard of this happening before. I am so torn. I do see where he is coming from and he has valid points. On the other hand, I have already asked my Mom and telling her I've had a change of heart would break her heart, especially if she knows my Dad was upset about it. Either way, I will end up hurting one of them and I do not want to do that. I am losing sleep over this. Thoughts and/or opinions would be really nice! Thank you!