My FMIL lives just a few hours away from me, near where FI and I will live after the wedding. My mother lives in a different state. FMIL has been wonderful about giving me ideas and offering assistance and all that. I am keeping my mom as involved as I can, given that she lives so far away.
The problem is, every time I get excited about something wedding related, my mom's reaction depresses me. I think she wants to like my FMIL (who she hasn't met yet) and be happy for me, but all she can focus on is that she lives so far away from me and FMIL gets to see me all the time, and she'll get to see the future grandkids all the time, and so on. It's making it really hard for me to want to talk with her about the wedding, or my FI, or our future plans. It happens EVERY time we talk. I'm tired of the emotional angst and don't want to dread every conversation with my mom.
Any suggestions?