Ok so my Fi only sister found out she will not be a bridesmaid and went crying to there mom. I feel terrible that she feels bad and it has def put a strain in my FI and I relationship. This decision was a difficult one to make bc my FI did want his sister to be a bridesmaid but I know I didn’t. His sister is very rude, she didn’t even say congratulations when we got engaged and she has made me cry about 3 times already of how rude she can be so I just didn’t want to put any more stress on me by having her as one of my bridesmaids. However my FI parents feel she should be a bridesmaid because it is tradition and by me doing this it causes uproar in the family. Do you ladies think I should include her as a bridesmaid just to keep everyone happy??? Im really torn about this in one hand I know she doesn’t really like me so why does she even want to be a bridesmaid??and on the other hand I can kinda see where his parents are coming from….any thoughts?