I JUST WANTED SOME ANONYMOUS THOUGHTS ABOUT A SITUATION THAT JUST AROSE WITH MY WEDDING APPROACHING. I HAVE HAD MY WEDDING DATE SET FOR 7 MONTHS NOW BUT MY SISTER JUST TOLD ME SHE DECIDED TO GET MARRIED 13 WEEKS BEFORE MY WEDDING DATE. I TOLD HER TO TALK TO OUR MOTHER TO SEE IF SHE CAN AFFORD TWO WEDDINGS IN ONE YEAR, WELL MY MOTHER STATED SHE WILL TAKE ON ANOTHER JOB TO PAY FOR BOTH OUR WEDDINGS. I TRIED EXPLAINING TO THE BOTH OF THEM THIS IS NOT A GOOD IDEA AND THEY KEEP CALLING ME SELFISH AND IMMATURE. MY MOTHER IS NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO BE WITH US MENTALLY AND ENJOY OUR WEDDING BECAUSE SHE IS GOING TO BE STRESSED OUT FROM WORKING TWO JOBS AND TRYING TO PLAN TWO WEDDINGS. BRIDES, HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE A SITUATION LIKE THIS?
Mrs. B2B