In all the books we've been reading getting ready for our marriage, they all seem to mention that same thing: The first year of marriage is terrible.
Is this really true?
FI and I know each other pretty well (been together for over 3 years) and don't think that things will so so terrible. Obviously we understand that living together will be a new and interesting situation. We will have to deal with how the other person lives and stuff like that. But is it really so awful the first year?