My MOH has been asking me what I'd like to do for my bachelorette party or at least give her some ideas. I'm really at a loss though. I'll be near 40 when I get married next year, and I have never been a big drinker so the traditional party doesn't appeal to me at all. I am having trouble thinking of alternatives that sound fun though. I have looked at suggestions on the knot, but I don't see anything I like. What are you planning to do? Most of my maids have very limited budgets so I am trying to keep cost in mind as well.