So I will preface this by saying I am not engaged. I was in a long term relationship with a man I planned on marrying up until I ended it a year ago. Could not be happier with that decision. Now the problem is, when I was with him, I planned what I would want for a wedding. I am from Cape Breton, NS and decided that if I was ever to get married it would be on the Tall Ships in Halifax, NS. After we broke up I knew that if I ever got married though that is still the only thing I wanted to do. My sister just got engaged in February, and yesterday when she picked me up from the airport we were talking about her upcoming wedding plans, she wants a fall weddding in 2013. She said " Oh I thought of you when I mentioned this to "fiance's name" we might get married on the tall ships. My thought were OF COURSE YOU THOUGHT OF ME THAT IS MY DREAM WEDDING!! She then asked a couple minutes later, " Can you imagine getting getting maried on a ship with a 9 piece band playing, how amazing would that be" Yeah, I can imagine, I have been imaging it for years!! This is not her only option for her planning, but she had decided it is a contender. Do I have any right to say this bothers me and really pisses me off. In the car I did say, oh well what am I going to do if I get married. She said, oh you can just do it as well. I don't feel that I would feel comfortable doing the same thing as my younger sister, when it was what I had always wanted. She is my best friend in the entire world, and I realy want her to be happy. What if I never get married and I say something and neither of us gets to do it, or I say something and she gets angry at me for wanting her to potentially changing her plans. I know that if it came down to it, I would rather have our relationship than my dream wedding, but I just don't know how to handle this situation.