My fiance and I are getting married in California but my fiance is from Pennsylvania. A very small number of his family/friends will be able to attend. His family has a traditional Polka Bridal Dance that they do at every wedding that Californians know nothing about. It wouldn't be super hard to teach our CA friends and family but it asks your guests to give you money ($1's). It's a tradition all of his friends and family have always done so when he told me about it I wanted to incorporate it so his traditions are included even though we're getting married in CA. But, I feel bad incorporating a tradition that asks people to give you money. Your thoughts?