Are there any other doctoral students here? In any case, I need to vent and figured this community was a good spot. I'm Canadian, studying in Boston, and my FI is French and lives in the south of France. I am writing my dissertation and don't even get any funding next year, but still my dept is refusing to let me live and work from France!! The chair of the dept is a real jackass (though he always tries to act supportive, lest anyone clue in to what a bastard he is). I'm so frustrated. He made me jump through hoops to get to this stage and I did all of my work and got stuff in order so I could go... but now he's putting any obstacle in my way possible (he feels all students must stay on campus in order to do good work). And he has a ton of power, which he is clearly abusing. I could throttle this man!!
Now I have to plan two weddings (Canada and France) from distance, while writing my dissertation, searching for jobs and figuring out how to pay for living expensives next year (Boston's quite pricey). I wish I could slap him!