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All said and done, the wedding cost....

A LOT! Did you fellow brides out there have various members of your family chip in for your wedding? What percent of the total cost did you, your parents, in-laws, other family members, etc pay for? My parents paid for 48%, we paid for 28%, and my husbands parents paid for 24%. 

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  • My parents are paying for everything but rings, rehearsal shenanigans, honeymoon, and a handful of DIYs that I wanna do (guest books, escort cards, etc.).  FI and I are paying for gifts (obviously), my accessories, STDs, DIY things, FI's tux--basically all the "extras".  FI's parents want to do the rehearsal and are covering the officiant since it's their minister. 
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  • We paid for everything. My grandparents paid for the honeymoon.
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  • My grandparents graciously paid 100% of the costs.
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  • We paid for the reception, HM, our rings and other things for the ceremony ourselves with the exception of the RD which the IL's graciously hosted and paid for. And my Grandma paid for my veil, our cake and helped with the flowers. H's Grandma paid all of our church fee's.
  • My Amazing Parents Paid 100% Of Our Bill & Suprised Us By Paying For Our Honeymoon..
  • We paid for everything.
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  • We paid 100% for the ceremony and reception.  We also covered the costs for our rings and various wedding sundries (favors, ring dish, cake topper, etc.).

    My mom paid for my dress alterations, H's mom paid for our honeymoon. 
  • I paid 2/3 of our wedding and my FI (now hubby) paid for 1/3.

  • We paid for everything, except H's parents paid for the RD and my parents gave me money for my gown.
  • We paid about 48% of the wedding costs and my parents paid the rest.  We also paid for our honeymoon and rings.  His parents paid for the rehearsal dinner.  
  • We paid roughly 60% of everything wedding-related plus all the honeymoon expenses.  His parents and my father both offered generous contributions.
  • We're paying 100% ourselves.
  • Everything for the wedding day my Mom paid for 100%.  FI paid for honeymoon, tuxes and rings.

    All I know is I feel incredibly lucky and when we started out this whole wedding planning thing I assumed we would be paying for it (not my Mom).  It felt really great that she did and I am very grateful and appreciative, and I never even asked for any of it.
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  • FMIL is a florist/caterer, so she's doing the flowers and food for free.  My mom used to be a cosmetologist, so she's doing my hair and make-up for free.  My mom also "bought" two one-day tickets to Universal Studios with Coke Reward points and gave them to us for free since our honeymoon is in Orlando.  FI and I are paying for everything else ourselves.
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  • LizdcLizdc member
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    100% ourselves.
  • We are paying for 100% ourselves.
  • We are also paying for all 100% ourselves, including whatever we do for the honeymoon (undecided). While sometimes, I REALLY wish we did have someone to help us along the way, I do love that we have the executive decision over everything. That's just about the only good thing about it.
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  • My parents are paying for all my stuff (dress, accessories), the reception food & drink costs & all the ceremony rental costs.

    The Fiance and I are paying for all the misc items, like DIY things, Ceremony items and part of the DJ cost.

    My fiance's Mom is paying for the Rehersal dinner.....

    &&&& Hopeuflly we will be able to have a honeymoon, but if not, not biggie :) 
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  • My parents paid for my dress and alterations, his parents paid for the rehearsal dinner, and we paid for everything else.
  • Everything that has gone into the wedding has been 100% us. It would be great to have someone to help, but we take pride in knowing that we have done this by ourselves. It is nice that everything has been our decision. I can't imagine having to figure out how to not hurt someone's feelings by not agreeing with whatever they want because they are helping us pay for it....
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  • So far his parents are paying $2,500 towards the wedding. We are budgeted at $5,000. Looks like we will be about $5,500 if everyone comes. So we aren't doing too bad. We are also paying for our HM.
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  • vexievexie member
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    We're paying 100% ourselves (although my MOH is paying for my hair and makeup as a wedding gift and my fiance's late-wife's parents have offered to host the rehearsal dinner - both completely unexpected surprises!)

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  • We are paying for everything for the wedding (from my dress, to the venue to the honeymoon).  However, about 38% is from inheritance that I got from my grandma when she passed away, so still technically my money, but it was helpful.
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