I'll be having four of my cousins and my best friend stand up in my wedding (as well as my sister, but she A) lives with me and
has known she'd be my MOH forever). The cousins all live 7 hours away, and the best friend lives about 13 hours away. I just got engaged, and I'm hoping for an October 2011 wedding.
Okay, after all that preamble, here's the question: do I wait until I can see these girls in person at the same time (most likely that would be Christmastime) to ask them to be my bridesmaids, or do I send them something cute in the mail to ask them? I've been seeing a lot of cute ideas for how your girls asked all of your attendants to stand up, so I'm hoping for some etiquette advice as well as fun ideas!