I recently decided on my November 3, 2012 date! I have only been engaged since Christmas, but we have been together since April of 2006. I have really been all over the place with making decisions.... Unfortunately with the economy a big LUSH weddign isnt going to be possible but we do BOTH have enormous families! I Have found a few beautiful and affordable venues, but i live in NJ and my wedding is taking place in Orlando Florida, where my Fiance now resides.....
I guess my inquiry is how do I inspire him to take some of this long distance stress off my shoulders by volunteering to take a local lead in our planning? or is it just sort of inherrent male behavior to leave 90% of planning up to the Bride-to-be?
Simple Yes or No answers seem to be all i can drag out of him.....He is excited for our life together, and keeps telling me that i'm so stylish, smart, and good with money, that it only makes sense that I should make these decisions....
advice?