DD's BFFs were over tonight so that we could discuss wedding plans as a group and keep everybody on the same page...brainstorm ideas, etc. several of the girls brought up a 'honeymoon jar' and if one was planned for the wedding. it apparently is a large jar or container placed with the escort cards, photo albums and such with a note that states 'honeymoon' and sometimes an explanation of where you would like to go and what activities you would like to do. i was, am, appalled. i get that the 'dollar dance' is a cultural tradition for some, but this is just horrifying to me. DD said she had seen it at the weddings of a few friends. i mean really??? are people doing this?? am i wrong to think *ell no not this wedding?