I'm torn on whether to budget for a videographer or not? My FI doesn't think we need one. I like the idea of having a video of the ceremony at least, since everyone has been telling me it's gonna go by so fast. I've asked friends who've had one---they say they love it. I've had friends that didn't get one--they are fine without it. My concern is that we'll spend all this money on something that we watch once, and then it sits somewhere among the other movies.
Any suggestions?