So I asked one of my best friends to be one of my bridemaids. Her response was pissed!! She wanted and expected to be the maid of honor since she has known me longer then who I picked, and is throwing a complete tantum over it, I mean the whole works! What do I do now? Unask her and ruin our friendship or leave her in and maybe ruin our friendship as she attempts to ruin my wedding? HELP!!!