Hello ladies....
I'm not engaged yet, but have been dating a truly wonderful man for some time now. We've been talking about getting married. Now, I've been eagerly waiting for the marriage talk. In fact, the first time we really hung out, I caught myself thinking, "THIS is what marriage is SUPPOSED to be like."
The thing is... now that it's somewhat of a reality, I find myself getting really scared. My first marriage was a train wreck. My ex-husband deceived me completely during our courtship and engagement. After the vows were said, he let his true self shine through and it was not at all the person I thought I was marrying.
My BF has done nothing to make me believe he would do anything like that to me and we've been dating far longer than I dated my ex-husband, but I still find myself scared at times to commit my life to someone again.
Anyone else go through this? Is this pretty normal for divorced women?