So I love the sand ceremony idea because it will incorporate my son into something. I still want rings and vows and I love the idea of a handfasting... Is all 3 too much. I want the handfasting because no one around here does them and its an Irish / Celtic thing and its different. My sister bought my sand ceremony set for Xmas for me and it was expensive so I can't not have the sand ceremony now but I still want the traditional with the rings and the different with the handfasting