I really want to say something...backstory:
I have an old friend who I haven't seen since like 2006, but we're still FB friends (so I guess he'd say we're friends, I certainly wouldn't consider him a friend). Back in February he invited me to his wedding via facebook. I politely declined and kept my mouth shut even though I wanted to point out that it was rude to invite me to his ceremony and not the reception (not getting into the facebook message part of it).
Well, I get another message this morning inviting me to a surprise baby shower for his wife that he's throwing for her next month. I really want to say something to him about the etiquette of throwing his own shower--I know two rudes don't make a right...but, come on, what can I say here? Maybe I just need to be talked down and keep my mouth shut, but is there any not totally b*tchy way to tell him what's up?