I told my XH that I was seeing someone. It was suggested to me to do this because we have kids. So, I sent a non-threatening email just saying that I was seeing someone and it was getting serious, so he was starting to bond with the kids. That was pretty much it. My XH never responded to it, but I was confident that he got it.
Then, last night, he "accidentally" sent me a text that was intended for someone else. It led to a text conversation that was intentionally cruel on his part. He made it clear that he was up to his old actions (we got divorced because he's a sex addict... aka Tiger Woods) and he told me to go run to my new man. He was just really mean.
Honestly, I never thought he'd be really upset about me seeing someone else. I was completely faithful during our marriage while he was hooking up with any slut or hooker who'd take him. He didn't care about me then, so why should he care that I'm seeing someone now?
Is anyone else dealing with a situation like this during a time that is otherwise blissful? How do you handle it?