So, I have 6 BMs, who are my 5 BFFs and 1 sister. I'm planning my wedding long distance (I live in Boston, wedding in Canada). The person helping me most (save my mom) is a girl I went to undergrad with, as she still lives in the city where the wedding will be. None of the rest of my BMs even live in the country, so they help out with opinions over email, etc. but naturally can't do that much.
Anyhow, she and I have gotten closer the past year, and I'm wondering now if I should ask her to be in the wedding. I feel kind of guilty, and not sure if she's expecting it or not... I know I'm one of her closest friends, but I have a lot of close friends, plus 5 best friends.
The other issue is that FI lives in France so most of his friends won't make it - meaning I'll have 7 BMs to his 2 groomsmen, max. Kinda ridiculous.
What do we think?