This is quite a long vent.
My FH and I love each other dearly but we have had nothing but problems with money and family since we decided to get married. His family is extremely low on money and can barely make their rent so they're not contributing anything, but they are EXTREMELY loving and supportive and that is enough for us. My mom and stepdad are supportive and are contributing a nice amount to help us but my mom wants say in everything we do and is furious that FH's parents won't contribute. It's causing her to write FMIL embarassing emails asking them to contribute even though I told her they can't afford it. FMIL continues to ignore my mom's emails which is offending both my mom and annoying FMIL. Now they are beginning to bad talk each other and I am the one in the middle having to hear it all. FH obviously is behind his mom and will take her side.
Now my dad (who hasn't been much of a dad to me my whole life) is constantly making up lies about FH and saying everything he can to destroy our wedding. He told my mom he'd match her and contribute but he keeps playing games with me. The last time I went to "spend quality time" with him he was so high on drugs he passed out 30 minutes after I got there. FH wants me to cut him completely out of my life.
I am so fed up with money and drama that I am close to just calling the entire thing off and running away to Vegas with FH to get married. I feel bad though since we have 8 bridesmaids and 8 groomesmen who all paid for their dresses and tuxes and they cannot return them. I'm beginning to cry daily because of the stress and hearing nothing but bad things about everyone and I can't even bring myself to enjoy the pleasures of planning our wedding. What in the world would you do in this situation? I just feel like I can't handle the stress the families are making in our lives anymore and I'm just going to hit my breaking point any second.
That felt good to get off my chest.....