FI has a 4 year-old niece. He is not particularly close with his bro or SIL.
We are not having any attendants up there with us - no GM or BMs. It's just not our style.
I get the feeling FI's family is a little peeved this little girl doesn't have a role in our wedding.
Is there some unspoken rule that little kids should play a role in the wedding?