This is going to be all rambly because I'm angry and emotional and seeing the worst possible scenarios right now.
The past week has been crazy hectic. H ended up with Sun/Sat off, which means we haven't been in the same place and both been awake since we went to bed Sun night. This is killing us and our communication is suffering big time.
I've been back at work all week, so H and I can't talk before he goes to work since he doesn't get up until after my lunch. Once he's at work it's hard for him to get more than 10 minutes so our conversations are usually like 5 minutes long and end abruptly when he all of a sudden says, "I have to go" and hangs up.
One thing I did tell him was that we had to get the deck pulled out this weekend because we told the guy we were ready to do the patio and I didn't want him to call to tell us he was coming to pour the patio and have us not be ready for it. So I told H we needed to pull out the deck this weekend. He told me to line up some help, so I did. Then he pulled it out himself. When I talked to him yesterday for a whopping 3 minutes, he told me that he needed a pick axe and rototiller for this weekend. I assumed that was all he needed. I told our help that they weren't needed and lined up the tools he needed.
I'm supposed to attend a bridal shower on Sun afternoon. I've been working so much and then running errands trying to finish getting H the supplies he needs plus getting the stuff I need for school that I haven't had time to do the shower gift shopping, so my mom and I made plans to go tomorrow morning at 10:30.,
Tonight H calls and says, "so who's coming to help us on Sat and what time will be there?" Huh? I didn't realize we needed help.
He then goes on this tirade about how he's been busting his hump because I said he had to get this done and blah blah blah...
I'm just frustrated. I'm tired of not seeing my husband, I'm tired of not having time to talk to him where we're not being interrupted...I'm just tired of it, and there's no end in sight. I'm really afraid of what may end up happening if he doesn't get promoted soon.