Okay, this might be a stupid question but I am going to ask anyways...
I have gone to a few weddings, as a bridesmaid and a guest; and I have given a gift both at the shower (from me) and the actual wedding (from my FI and I together). I received a thank you for the shower gift each time, but only once did I receive a TY for the monetary gift from the both of us. Is that normal? Do people really not write TY's because they already said it once?
To me, the shower is a separate event from the actual wedding so of course I think a TY is necessary. I just found it very rude that I didn't receive one; but it happened more than once and I am curious what you all think and planned on doing.