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Can't pick a MOH!

I have two absolute best friends. And I can't bring myself to pick between them.. I don't want someone that doesn't mean as much to me as they do.. Can I have two?!

Re: Can't pick a MOH!

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    Why wouldn't you be able to?
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    Sometimes I feel like people think that brides are delicate little flower princesses who get all dressed up and pretty for one special moment of their dreams, when really they're just normal people who just happen to be getting married. Things shouldn't have to be sugar-coated for grown-ass women. -mstar284
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    Sure.
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    Of course.  The wedding police won't come break up your wedding because you have two MsOH.  Just say, "I love you both too much to choose between you both, so I'd like you both to be my MOH."
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    ditto pps.  You can certainly have 2 MOH's.  The only caution I'd give is if you only have 3 BMs.  Then I wouldn't make two "Honor" attendants at the expense of the third.
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    Oh, good point, Trix.  Yeah, if you only have three girls, don't designate a MOH.  If you have four or more, go ahead and have two.
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    Sometimes I feel like people think that brides are delicate little flower princesses who get all dressed up and pretty for one special moment of their dreams, when really they're just normal people who just happen to be getting married. Things shouldn't have to be sugar-coated for grown-ass women. -mstar284
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    Of course you can have two. I had three bridesmaids and couldn't pick between two for a MOH, so I had three bridesmaids and no maid of honor.
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    You should make them play Battleship and who ever wins gets to be your MOH.
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    You sure can have two MOH.
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    Of COURSE you can have two! I plan on having my sister as my Matron of Honor,  (she is eleven years older than I am and married) and my best friend (practically since birth!) as my Maid of Honor, with four other BMs as well!

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    If you don't feel comfortable using rock, paper, scissors to decide then yes you can have two.  I couldn't pick between my sisters so they are both my MOHs.  I like to call my older sister a Matron of Honor (she is getting married next week) just to make her sound old.
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    Thanks so much! I'm having four other BMs, so no one will feel left out!!
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