So I've got a friend who's engaged also and getting married in October,and a Coworker who is also marrying in October.There panning their weddings of course and when talking plans when I comment with my own as well ,and there always saying things like Youve got like a whole year anyway,why are you worried?,and I could not wait that long to get married! I was engaged first,then my friend,then coworker.I think it's rude and not true! we're not planning too early are we?!and a year wait is not long!!Anyone else going through this??