I have an awkard situation. I am planning my wedding for February 2011. We are all very excited and having a blast with the planning. However, in a discussion with my future mother in law earlier today we realized the date of the wedding is going to end up being a problem, but it also cannot be changed at this point. My futre brother in law will be getting married in June in Germany. I will not be able to get an updated passport by the date we will need to leave for Germany. I have two ways to circumvent this. First, we can get married by the justice of the peace, and have a religious ceremony in Feb, or keep my current name until we return from Germany. As I still hold my name from a previous marriage, all parties involved (my self included) find this unacceptable. So, therefore, option one is the more viable. This poses another problem. How do we reasonably word the invitaions to reflect that the religious ceremony is the intended begining of our marriage, and how does the pastor administer the vows? Is it ok to use my current name on the invitations and in the ceremony even though by that time it will have to have been legally changed to enable me to get a passport? Help.