I'm usually not comfortable venting in public places, but I feel like someone on here might understand where I'm coming from because I feel like no on else does!
I have 7 Bridesmaids, most of them are cousins my age with the exception of a few close friends. When I was thinking about who I wanted to pick in my family, I went down the line and got to one I KNEW was going to be a pain in my ass, but I knew if I didnt ask her she would make everyone's life a living hell. That's how she is, impossible to please.
Well, we are a few months into planning and she has complained about EVERYTHING! She bitches about the color of the dresses and says "Well, if it was my wedding..." however, she is not married (because she is so freaking mean). She doesnt like the way I do ANYTHING or ANYTHING that I've picked. She wants to do her own hair and makeup and refuses to use the people everyone else is using. She makes "suggestions" to the other girls that go against what I've asked them to do. I am trying to "kill her with kindness" but things like that dont phase her.
Today I asked her if she got the note about the dress change and she said "Got it. Thanks." If I dont do things her way then she refuses to talk to me. Which would be nice, but she has to be involved with what I've chosen and the plans I'm making.
She is driving me NUTS! I cant go back and say that she cant be a part of the wedding and I know she wont back out because she wants to torture me. I've been trying not to add this crap to my pile of stress, but I dont know what to say to either make her happy or make her shut up. Is anyone else having this problem?
Again, so sorry for the ranting! I know this is supposed to be a happy place, but I'm just a very frustrated Bridezilla right now
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-Louis L'Amour