So I know this is non wedding related and most likely not the right board but I tend to lurk/post here most often and respect where you girls come from objectively.
Ok so my older sister is going through a separation with her husband - which is awful for her- honestly I'm not that upset b/c I'm not a huge fan of his anyway. So I have a group of really close college friends that my sister is also close to (prior to her husband). So about 4 times a year we all get together at my friends lake house and party all weekend and it's about the only times that I get to see all of them at once. Labor day happens to be one of those weekends. So my sister tells me yesterday that Chris her-soon to be ex is going up to the lake without her. Which is weird b/c for the first 3 years (out of 4) he had fought her about going up there b/c he hated it. Now my FI and I can't make it this year b/c we're going to a wedding but it makes me uncomfortable that he's up there with my friends.
-none of my friends know that they are separated (it just happened within the last month or so and my sister has chosen not to tell them. She told Chris that he has to tell them this weekend.)
Am I out of line to be upset that he's going and that he now wants to be a part of the weekends? I don't want to see him there when I'm there either. The weekends are usually 20-30 people so it's not like I could avoid him.
sorry so long, thanks!