Hi ladies,
So my FI and I have a complicated deal going on with my church. Here's the scenario. We are getting married in my home parish. A priest who is in the city of FI and my's law school is doing the precana stuff for us. One of FI's old high school teachers is officiating. So there are three priests involved. The issue is that the priest who is officiating is part of the Marist order, and apparently we need special permission from the priest at my home parish to have him officiate, or else the archdiocese won't recognize it. I'm not sure if that's true, but that's what I've been told.
So we've gotten everybody to orally agree and we've been progressing, but the priest at my home church is basically not following through with the one thing he needs to do - which is fax this permission sheet to the archdiocese. I have tried calling and emailing him about other things (he asked us to meet with him through my parents and then we never heard another word when we tried to set up a meeting) and he hasn't responded to a single thing. We've got about 10 months, but I don't know this rule, and I have no idea if this paper has to be sent in by a certain time.
The other deal is that he booked a wedding when we were supposed to have the church for our rehearsal, and we've been trying to reschedule. But then he told us we couldn't schedule until late October (through his secretary - he has never told us a single thing himself). He hasn't said as much, but I'm getting the impression that he wants to hold this form over mine and my fiance's heads because he and my parents aren't BFFs. I'm getting frustrated, and I'm just not sure how to approach this.
Does anybody have any suggestions?