My FI and I are getting married April 2013. He has a huge family and his father is a pastor, so he also has a huge church family. We've compromised and have a guest list of 370 (a little more than what we intended). Even with 370 guests there will be a lot of people left out. Would it be rude to have 2 receptions? One reception would be after the wedding as normal. The second reception would be Sunday after church, serving cake and drinks. We really want the church to know how appreciative we are of their love and support. Also, would it be too confusing to invite everybody to the ceremony and let them know we're having a special reception on Sunday following church? Thanks!