my fi and i are pretty young i am 23 and he's 27. I am planning on doing all the traditional things, but i am ?'ing the bride/dad and groom/mother dance, my fi lost his mom last year after 4 year battle with cancer and his dad isn't around. i think it might hurt my fathers feelings not to do this dance, but don't want jon (fi) to feel bad about his mom being gone. any ideas? we both miss her very much and wish she could be with us on our big day