We've been together for 5 years and a few months ago he finally proposed!!!!!! My parents have met him many times and everything. However, just now my mom was saying that "You're more stuck on him than he is on you," and, "I hope he feels the same way you do about him as he does about you." I would prefer not to co-habitate together before marriage (we aren't particularly religious, though we both happened to come from catholic upbringings, it's just we prefer to live together after being married), and so I feel that as long as I live at home, she will continue to exercise her control and try to plant seeds of doubt in my mind. The worst part is, I usually share these tidbits with my fiance, and over the years it has led to frustrations that add up. (He in turn shares stuff about his family that they say, even though I have asked him many times not to do so, but he doesn't seem to have a filter). So what are we going to do? I can't move out until I get a better job, which I am working on (the wedding isn't for 2 years), but at least he has the stable job...I feel so stuck. Should I just quit my long term corporate temp job and move out and work like, 2 part time jobs? It's so maddening to me I don't know ahhh!