My mom is such a Type A and it's driving me up a freaking wall.
My sister got married last year and she lived at home the whole time, and my mother watched her pour over wedding things every single day. I'm a little different in that hey, I want nice details, but I don't really worry about things or get overly concerned. She called me today to ask how planning was coming and I didn't really know what to tell her. Everything is booked, but mostly everyone tells me "well call back when you're about 3 months out and we'll talk more." So I'm like ok, sounds good, and I go about my life.
It's driving my mother insane that I don't have a planning book just like my sister did, or that I'm not constantly looking at magazines for ideas. Maybe I already know what I want. Why do I have to keep looking? And why must have I have a planner... I have a notebook I've been outlining things in and I have a calender thing online that sends me reminders. Seriously. What the eff.
I keep trying to reassure her that everything will be fine but she's relentless. I'm seriously thisclose to just saying screw it and telling her that I don't care how anything looks at the reception or what is used to decorate the church. I want to just tell her "If you're so obsessed with how things are going to turn out - have at it and do it your way."
All I care about is spending the rest of my life with my guy.
/vent over