So if you do or don't have kids already...
If you don't have kids how long are you planning to wait after getting married to start trying for babies?
If you DO have kids and want more how long do you plan to try and have more?
I know for us the plan was to wait 2 - 3 years. I got mirena long-term birth control partly before of this plan. My FI talks to me the other day and says he wants them sooner. He is older than me by 14 years and will be 40 in just over 4 years (36 bday is only days away). He says he wants to be a father before he is 40. I'm fine with either plan because I adore kids, I helped raise my younger cousin (I'm having a hard time with him now being a pre-teen and me getting married and moving away...I've just been informed he has been talking on the phone with girls) For my FI he says the sooner the better, but we do want to have some time for ourselves because we both love to travel and I'm really the spur of the moment kind of girl. I want our kids to have the joys of traveling the world early and they will deffinately be going on plenty of trips, but I don't want to start them as babies...for one I am not dragging around a stroller and two I want them to remember their adventures.
Looks like now we have decided on only waiting a year to a year and a half before trying. If trying doesn't work I want to adopt which I've always wanted to adopt if I have my own kid or not. I have this thing about taking in kids and giving them the love they deserve...I get it from my mom.
"Ever Thine, Ever Mine, Ever Ours"
Janae & Olivier