So a friend (not real close but close enough) of mine just got engaged which is awesome and I was recently married 2 months ago
I got a text message last night from her saying "Were gonna have the same wedding anniversary"
I have to say I was little upset and just felt a big blow. I responded "Really. WOW!" She said I didn't realize! Heika (another friend) pointed it out today" I asked her why that date? any particular reason? She said "I like fall idk it just worked. The 8th is msu/um & the 15th my friend in standing in a wedding" I just responded saying "oh"
I have no idea what i should do or how i should be feeling. We have to see them tomorrow for another friends wedding. My husband said that I shouldn't worry about it. And i said well we can't go to there wedding because we'll be celebrating our first year anniversary. He said we could still go and I said no were not. I'm not gonna celebrate our first year of marriage at another wedding and he there wedding cake when we should be eating ours.
I just feel like a knife just stabbed me in the back. My bachelorette party I had to share with a bridesmaid because she got so wasted my party ended early and drama started. My wedding shower all the bridesmaids hated the planning and arguments arose with the aunt and cousin who were helping plan.
I just feel like that should be our day and we shouldn't have to share it with anyone else. Maybe I'm being shelfish I don't know. I just need some advise on how to handle this and maybe I am overreacting.