As soon as I began dating my fiance, my best friend gave me an ultimatium, it was him or her. I told her that was uncalled for and unfair, but because I didn't choose her right on the spot she now hates me and has it made clear that she wants nothing to do with me. We were friends for almost 20 years by that time. For all these years that we were friends we've been a part of each other's extended families and I still hear from her aunts, uncles and grandparents on a regular basis, they contact me, and I plan on inviting them to the wedding because they have been a part of my life. However, when she declared we were no longer friends and that she hated me (yes, childish), she said I was no longer allowed to be part of her family. Question is, her parents have also been a part of my life and I am unsure if it would be improper to invite them or not invite them because of her feelings, but for the sake that I am involving others from that part of the family. Or should I just not invite any of them? Advice?