Is it wrong to not invite cousins you have only seen a few times in your life? I wanted to keep my count down to 120 max (as the rooms capacity is 132) but my parents are insisting that I invite all the first cousins. I am paying for the majority of the wedding myself. I want to invite the ones who have been close to myself and my family. But the ones who I only see at other family weddings or funerals just seem to only show up for the open bar and free food. Is it wrong to cut them from the list or put them on the B list?