Ok, so here it goes:
Second marriage for both of us
married June 13, 2011
I have two girls soon-to-be 16 and 13 that live with us.
ex lives out of state and doesn't see the girls
H has one boy 9 (adopted) who lives with us
H ex is the most non-maternal "mother" I've EVER known and H's sone doesn't want to go with her the few times she does "have him." He'll pretend he's sick (she is ultra sensitive to getting sick herself.) to keep from going with her.
H has OCD and wants the kids to do their chores like a drill sargent (I think they should do their chores but he needs to also know they are going to defy him. He actually complained to me that "the kids are not team players in our house." I laughed! I mean really? I know I didn't give a crap about taking care of anything regarding housework until it was my house I was paying for and when I was in bootcamp in the Navy!)
H's son barely talks to me, loooks at me and will even eat dinner at different table. He follows H around everywhere and says "Dad" a gazillion times. It is at point that I don't want to be in the same house let alone room with the child.
My oldest will be 16 on the 16th of this month. She is your typical 16 year old girl who spends loads of time in her room listening to music, watching TV and texting friends. H thinks she needs to spend more time with us.
We went to a counselor the Thursday before last and the counselor stated that the 16 year's behavior was completely normal. Still H complains...
The 13 year old I swear is the only one without issues and she is the poster child for ADHD! ;-)
I'm about to lose my mind...help!