Hi there everyone -- I'm pretty quiet on most boards, except my Month/Year board, so I apologize for not giving myself an introduction first (I know a lot of boards prefer introductions before posts).
I asked my oldest friend to be my MOH. She wasn't sure if she'd be in the country, as she is currently teaching English in Japan, but she happily accepted with the stipulation that she would be stateside.
Our moms are friends, and her mom apparently mentioned that she (my friend) is planning on renewing her teaching contract to stay for another year or two. The most she told me is that she will be home in August, but wasn't sure yet about next May, when we will be getting married.
I know I've got some time yet before I really need to be concerned... but I would like a solid statement from her either way sometime in the next few months (for sure by September). I suppose I would just like some advice about how to say that I do need to know what her plans are, and that even if she can't make it, it will be fine.
Thanks in advance for your advice!